Monday, February 25, 2008

Good Morning Monday!!!

I hear that I have been missed. You wouldn't know it by looking at my comment section. Yes, friends, that was a snide remark and whiney complaint about the fact that the very people who like to gripe about my recent lack of posting do NOT leave me comments. I thrive on comments people. Really. My Love Language is words of affirmation. I don't function all that well when no one tells me how awesome I am. It has taken Dustan ten years to finally figure out that when he steps into a sparkling bathroom and says, "Woah! This place practically blinds me in cleanliness!", that he will come home to sparkling clean bathrooms for weeks. I get all depressed and stuff when people don't tell me they love me.
And don't laugh at my whininess. Take the love language quiz and find out what makes your wheels turn. Then, leave me a COMMENT and tell me what it is. Who knows, I might send you a little gift...which will rock your world if your love language just happens to be GIFTS!
Okay, here is the other reason I have neglected the blog. Depressing isn't it? The price tage was outrageously depressing. But, I have to admit, Tamiflu actually worked. No one ended up in the hospital and the boys' case was hardly a case at all. Mine was a negative on the Richter (I am not looking that spelling up- so live with it) scale. Dustan never even got it. Esther however...poor poor Esther. Oh, and we had TWO strains! as if one was not enough???? We didn't have Tamiflu for the first one. I am considering a lawsuit. (I am kidding)

But, it is Monday, and I am not supposed to whine on Monday. I am supposed to excitedly tell you how to UNclutter your lives. And so I will. So I will. I just had to get all caught up and stuff.
I know this picture will make you think that I have gotten off track on life decluttering and derailed over to the Stuff decluttering...but do not be decieved. This is not about how organized I am.
This entire project started HERE, when I wondered, why my life couldn't always be as simple and as happy as it was while camping. I have thought long and hard about the things that make me happy while camping. I think that thing number one would be my camping drink concoction. Don't get worried. I am not making my own brand of moonshine. First thing every morning (after building a fire) is to heat a kettle of water, then make some instant coffee (from the baggie- not the other stuff...yuck). Then I dump a bag of hot cocoa mix into the mug and drink up. I drink this ALL day long. so much, that I never sleep while camping. I pee instead. ALL NIGHT LONG.
Anyhow, there is something simple about a mug of something. It makes you take a breath. It is pampering and soothing and it belongs in every day...not just the camping ones.
The above cabinet is devoted to drinking (haha- no, seriously, I wish...but no). I don't have time to make a pot of coffee every day, and I hate cleaning out the pot...so...I only pull the coffee maker out for company, and use all that single serving sized stuff for every day. And for those few minutes of the day...

It feels like camping.


And if, in fact, you want a tip for Stuff decluttering, this following is the best one I ever got (okay, maybe not...ONE of the best!)
LIKE STUFF TOGETHER. I yelled that so that it would drive like an arrow into your brain and make you rearrange all your cabinets. If you look closely at my phot, you will see some jarred soup mixes on the top shelf. those are not hot drink stuff. therefore, they DO NOT BELONG WITH COFFEE, TEA, AND COCOA! Trust me, by tomorrow those will be moved. They are so high I never noticed them (which is also why they are almost two years old) each of my cabinets have a purpose, and I am ruthless about things that do not belong.

10 comments:

Tea said...

love it! Just this morning I cleaned out my own 'drinking cupboard' and then had a tea party with my 4yo. A warm mug of something and a good read or conversation is certainly one of the finer things in life.

Ken elsey said...

oh that my cupboard was that neat..lol...mine is a catch all..whatever is roaming around it catches. and i do miss your blogs becka....

Anonymous said...

Becca your bathrooms are the neatest and your marme loves you.

muralimanohar said...

Hmm...apparently my love language is words of affirmation, too..which is blindingly obvious now that it was pointed out to me. (Thanks for the link..I've heard plenty about the book, but never heard of the site before!)

And I refuse to talk about the state of my cupboards. No, thank you! :p

Gwen said...

WHAT is UP with BLOGGER????

Argh! I had a great comment. Blogger ate it. Stupid blogger.

I'm hoping to reorganize my drink/spice cabinet today. It's actually been on my list for some time.

And my love language will have to be comment 2 because if I click back blogger will eat yet another set of words from me.

Gwen said...

Ok, my love language is most assuredly gifts. I love them. I love them even if I know what is in them. I love them even if they are paper clips. I also rate strongly in other categories as well. I also very much love to be with people.

Oh, and a mug of coffee is most definately a priority in my day. I don't think it's even the coffee. It's the excuse to take even just a moment for myself, to sip and breathe and just BE. Often it is just a split second or 2, but it makes all the difference in my day.

Jack's Mom said...

Me, too, Gwen!

Come over - I'll give you a gift ;)

Val said...

I comment all the time. Big whinner. lol...

Val

Sara Mincy said...

I can never figure out my love language because they all look good to me! But I think I am with you on the words of affirmation, and then probably touch.....but I love gifts too :)

Tara said...

You know I used to always think my primary one was gifts. It probably still is, but affirmations have been meaning an awful lot to me lately too. Of course quality time is very nice too. And acts of service often makes a wonderful gift, lol.